Yes, I am still alive.
Real life has such a way of getting in the way of the internet, doesn’t it? I have meant to blog so many times and then just didn’t take the time to do it. In my defense, if I have a choice between blogging and napping, at this point, naps win out every time!
I mentioned a possibly life-changing trip to Florida in my last post. Well, life is NOT changing. At least not to Florida. Squid had a worship ministry possibility in the Tampa area, but it didn’t work out. To be honest, we are both a bit relieved. If God had called us to sell our house in the worst Michigan economy in history and move to Florida a month after the birth of our 4th child, we would have done it. But I’m a little glad He didn’t. We both have been involved with music and theatre auditions enough to know the difference between not being good at something and not being the right person for the job. Squid is quite confident that it was the latter — and in ministry especially you don’t want to be in an job if you are not the man for the job. Now, though, we’re a bit adrift and trying to figure out WHAT God has in store for us.
Homework is still stinking! It is a bit better, time-wise, but still a struggle. I just feel like the girls get NO time to play. Saturdays they get some time, but then there’s the chores they didn’t do all week because of homework. Squid has noticed, though, that the work is actually a little easy for them. They know the facts, it just takes a long time for them to write the answers out because we haven’t done a lot of desk work at home. So . . . he is actually thinking about bringing them home! Homework is just busywork if they’re not learning anything new. I’m going to have to take a more organized approach for this to work, though, and this whole school thing has really helped me see their strengths and weaknesses to work on. I’m not promising them anything yet — Pink Pixie begs me every single day to quit school and come home — but we’ll see how the rest of the semester goes.
Speaking of homework and school, we had a marathon homework session this past Friday, Saturday, and Sunday afternoon because the girls left Monday morning with Nana and Papa for DISNEYWORLD!!! You’d think I would have had more time to blog this week, but we decided to do some decorating while they’re gone. I think I’ve mentioned elsewhere on this blog that we own a 2-bedroom 1086 sf bungalow. Technically it’s a 3-bedroom since the bungalow is finished. Squid and I have taken it because we have a king-sized bed and it just doesn’t fit well with other furniture in the smaller bedrooms. But with Fiona on the way we have been tossing around the idea of turning the upstairs into the Girls Dormitory. This week has turned into a bit of Trading Spaces around here. We painted their room for us, and today started painting the upstairs pink for them. Unfortunately, I did NOT check the paint chip before ordering paint as the website suggests and we have ended up with Pepto Bismol pink as the accent wall color. It was supposed to be more of a rosy color. I’m going to have to do some texturing, glazing, sponging, or something, because Squid just came downstairs after observing my cutting-in and said it looks like someone threw up Pepto Bismol on the wall. Not exactly Blush and Bashful. The girls will love it anyway, it was panelling — not the really cool knotty pine that 1940’s bungalows are known for, but cheapo crappy panelling. So today was Kilz and cutting in the hot pink and tomorrow will be rolling the Pepto and doing the lighter pink. Then it’s move all the furniture that is currently residing in my dining room BACK into the rooms it belongs in. I may not be back on for a couple of days. But I promise it won’t be two more weeks.
OH, on the baby front: Things are great. She’s moving a lot, I have to go for non-stress tests TWICE A WEEK because of my ‘advanced maternal age’. Really. I have no other problems, my blood pressure is fine, my blood sugar is fine, I have no problems at all. Good thing the office is only 5 minutes away. It’s actually kind of nice, I snooze in an easy chair with my feet up and click this little clicker when Fiona kicks. Peaceful!
Well, see ya after the painting’s done. I’ll post pictures!
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Very cool.
I like the idea of a girls’ dorm. Friends of ours did that with their boys. It worked very well.
Throwing up Pepto Bismol is way too believable a scenario to leave that on the wall. (Although if someone did, it would just match.)
I know it has been hard for you to let the girls go to public school. One thing I learned by our one year of not homeschooling was if you are supposed to be doing it, God will make it VERY clear. Even to a reluctant one. (That was me.)
Glad to hear from you. I was starting to wonder if you were going to quit blogging since the girls were in school.
October 5th, 2007 at 10:43 pmIt does sound like who have been very busy. We have the three girls in one room (7,5 & 2) and besides it getting messy fairly quickly it isn’t a bad set-up.
I just have to say, after having a baby last year, that if I had listened to my MIL and DH and enrolled Mary into school - I think I would have pulled my hair out last year. We did take some time off after he came home from the NICU (before that my mom subbed for me as we tried to keep them on the same schedule). But, it was so much better sticking to our relaxed schedule than trying to meet the arbitrary school schedule. When I had Emily (2yr old), Mary was in a preschool 3x/week (because my in-laws & DH thought it would be easier) and that was bad enough. Much tougher than with Robbie this last time, we ended up having a great year with a lot of growth.
Wishing you well with the last few weeks. Can’t wait to “meet” Fiona (what a great name).
Amy
October 5th, 2007 at 10:58 pmHi! ^^,
Nice blog here. Good to hear too you are in the music ministry, i was once.
How’s the baby doing? when are you due?
Take care always and drink milk always -good for the baby.
cheers!
October 6th, 2007 at 4:44 amI don’t blog anymore…but I think we wrote back and forth about a year and a half ago, or so. You had lost your baby? Somewhat early miscarriage? I was desperately trying to figure out if God had one more child for us, giving us 4 children. You shared some thoughts about this with me. I appreciated it very much. Our fourth is now nearly 8 months old, with our older children 12, 10 and 7. He is the most wonderful creature, and yes, I’m tired. But it is so worth it. We also homeschool, and in light of a very sick pregnancy year, and newborn, I was driven to find curriculum that was more self-instructional, and not thousands of dollars a year. If you should bring the children home, please just investigate The Robinson Curriculum. They have a website. Easy to find. It is the only thing in a dozen years that I’ve stuck with for 2 months, and we are loving the results.
Just thought I’d share, blessings on your new baby, and for your entire family.
October 9th, 2007 at 1:54 pmI love to read your blog (when I can) but I’m really straining to try to read it with this new black background (and I got my NEW glasses this week) Know you change your background a lot and I’ll be looking forward to a new one Hahaha. But keep blogging, I love it…Also LOVED Squid’s blog!
October 11th, 2007 at 8:18 am